90 days of 1:1 coaching for new managers in the first 3 to 6 months of the role. The window where your habits as a leader get set, mostly by accident. We set them on purpose.
Being a manager is not a bigger version of being great at your job. It is a different job. The old reflexes work against you. The new ones nobody trained you for.
If two of these are familiar, you're in the window. If all three are, you've been in it longer than you want to admit.
The invites landed in week one and you said yes to all of them. Three weeks in, your week is built by other people, and the work that's actually on your scorecard is what gets sacrificed.
You can see the work slipping. You noticed the energy shift in last week's one-on-one. You haven't said anything yet, because saying something means having a conversation you've never had from this side of the table.
Someone on your team hits a blocker, you jump in. A deadline slips, you do the work yourself over the weekend. Every hour you spend doing someone else's job is an hour you aren't building the team, the systems, and the clarity only you can build.
of the time, companies pick the wrong person for management. Most new managers are doing a job they were never set up for. The pattern is structural, not personal.Gallup, State of the American Manager
We map the calendar, the team, the boss, and the work. What is burning you out. What is hiding in your inbox. The conversations you have been avoiding for longer than you want to admit.
One-on-ones that develop your people instead of just checking status. Delegation that doesn't take the work back. A feedback muscle that holds up under a rough month. The mechanics you wish your last manager had.
You're working the new system live, against real weeks with a real team. I pressure-test, you adjust. By the end, the habits are yours, the Foundation document is written, and the manager you become is one you actually chose.
Day one I had reps looking to me for answers I didn't have. I started small. Tiny, actionable things my team could test inside a week, while I learned the terrain. The sweeping changes came later, after my feet were on the ground. Most new managers I coach are sitting in some version of the same moment.
The Foundation is built for that window. The first 3 to 6 months, before the bad habits set. While the job is still being shaped.
Coaching that doesn't show up in how your team runs is coaching that didn't work. Here is what the work produces, in the language of the job you actually do.
Structured, coaching-led, and short enough that nobody is hiding from it. The status update belongs somewhere else and you know where.
What your team is doing, why, and what you said no to. Backed by what you actually saw, not what you hope. No padding. No surprises in the review.
Direct, specific, respectful, on time. The hard conversation you used to put off for a week, you have on Tuesday afternoon.
Block-out time you defend without flinching. Meetings you canceled. A weekly rhythm that survives a bad quarter and a busy month.
Showing up in leadership meetings and exec syncs like a peer, not the newest person in the room. Trust that builds toward the next role on its own.
Who you are as a leader. Where you're going. The mindset that holds it all together. One document, built with you, kept by you.
Jared helped me slow down in moments when I'd normally rush to fix things, and trust my instincts about what people actually needed to hear and quiet the internal second-guessing. He also pushed me to acknowledge wins out loud, something I used to breeze past in favor of the next crisis or action we had to do. I walk into meetings differently now, with clarity and trust that regardless of what's happening in the moment, I will figure a way out.
I had just started a new job during a busy season and the extra stress was piling up. Jared was really good at asking questions and understanding the core of what I was struggling with. He guided me toward a plan and shared a guided meditation to help. After the session, I felt more grounded and supported.
When I first went to Jared, I was feeling burned out from my sales career, especially after everything that happened during COVID. I thought I was going to him for professional help, but what I received went much deeper. Jared helped me slow down, look at myself honestly, and rebuild my confidence. What made his coaching life changing was that it impacted every part of my life. I went in looking for help with burnout and direction, but I walked away with a stronger sense of purpose and a better understanding of the person I wanted to become.
Showing up in the one-on-one, the skip-level, the exec sync. Listening to what your teammate actually said, not what you wanted them to say. Being in the room you're in.
Doing the work that matters, with intention behind the effort. Coaching your people to their goals. Building the team's results, not just protecting your own. The discipline that turns a good month into a habit.
You're a partner, a parent, a leader, a person. The job is intense. The work is sustainable when you build it into a life that holds, instead of one that buckles every March and September.
The Vibe Check is twelve questions, scored against Presence, Performance, and Integrity. Five minutes. Instant results.
Here is the part most new managers don't know. Your company probably has money for this. L&D budgets, professional development stipends, and manager-training funds cover 1:1 coaching all the time. Ask. If the answer is no, payment plans make it workable on your own.
A discovery call is a low-stakes conversation about where you are, what's in your way, and whether this is the right time. No pitch deck, no pressure. If your company would sponsor it, we'll cover how that works too.